Naughty, Naughty
I strongly advocate you to be totally respectful to every human being crossing your path and I am not kidding about that.
Anyway, when it comes to your sexual life, even if a declaration of love can be delightful during a sexual intercourse, being only “gentle” in your bedroom can somehow seriously diminish your lust and you begin to consider your partner as your best friend which is not the best way to get aroused, right ?
My suggestion is to warm up the atmosphere with words, a good remedy to sexual boredom and lack of imagination or if you are not in the mood to experiment new adventurous kama sutra positions :
All you have to do is “talking naughty”.
I often read about “dirty talk” and I don’t like it because it often refers to caricatures we see in pornography with humiliating words and acts mostly directed against women.
Keep in mind you can say everything you want to your partner as long as there is a mutual agreement.
Some words might be disgusting for some of you and very exciting to others. My point is certainly not to be moralistic or politically correct, just to emphasise that sometimes, it is better to sort out some possible issues before they happen. You can also write what you would love to hear, you might be surprised by your partner fantasies and like Vegas tourists say, whatever happens in your bedroom (or any place you choose for your sexual intercourse) stays there.
Just in case you need some inspiration, with a french touch inspiration…